About myself

Hi there! My name is Talia. I'm a 30 year old trans woman from the Netherlands, currently residing in Germany. I came into this world blessed with a lovely cocktail of ASD, ADHD, and a heavy sprinkling of introversion and social anxiety. All of that was left so simmer for about two decades in an emotionally and physically abusive, heavily narcissistic family. And finally, the pièce de résistance to this wonderful dish is a number of tragic losses in the past couple of years. Why yes, I am a lot of fun at parties, why do you ask?

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This blog is nothing more than just me shouting into the void. My mind feels like a constant whirlwind of uncontrollable thoughts. And for the most part, I keep those thoughts cooped up inside my head, because I always feel like I'm bothering people when I share them. Turns out that's not healthy. Who'd have thought?

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So I figured I'd get myself a nice little place on the internet, where I can just unload those thoughts onto the digital paper, hoping it will cause some relief.

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What can you expect to see here? Opinion pieces, essays, and perhaps the occasional update about my private life. A mixed bag of whatever I need to get out of my brain, really. There might be very little connection between the various things I post, or they might all wind up being about the same stuff. Who knows? And who cares? This is for me.

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I have a very wide range of interests, but the most prominent ones are video games and music, so be prepared to see a lot about that.

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If you've made it this far: first of all, why? Second of all, I'm sorry. And lastly, thank you.

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